You Need to Get Out Of Your Own Way

You dream about a different life.

A life with more time with your kids, your partner, and just doing things that make life worth living.

You don't know how you'll get there or where to even start, but you crave it.

What keeps you stuck?


Fear of failure.

Fear of rejection.

Take a deep breath.

You’re putting way too much pressure on yourself.

Jasmine Star says it best, take messy action.

Jasmine star says take messy action

The journey is 10,000 times more beautiful than you can imagine.

Look it our story.

We came on this platform to survive the ‘shelter in place’ and fully intentioned on returning to our other businesses once we opened back up.

Then there was you, and we became a candle family.

Now our vision has evolved to include sharing the profits with other parents near and far.

None of this would have happened if I froze up that first time I went to post.

I didn’t know Instagram.

I’m terrified of rejection, just like everyone else.

And I did it.  I snapped a picture, added a really intense filter 😂  and posted it up!

fear of rejection

You can do the same thing.

Even if you don’t know what you want to do, you know the kind of life you want to live.

You want to be there to get your kids off the bus.

You want to be the mom that volunteers midday in the classroom.

And you dang well want to be the mom that has enough energy and time to snuggle at the end of the day and read them a story.

I know your heart.

You just have to get out of your own way.

Where do you start?

Find some helpful resources.  I used Google and podcasts.

If you have a product or think you want to get into selling a physical product online, check out The Product Boss Podcast.

Let's say you want to represent a lifestyle.  Jasmine Star is the woman for you.  She will teach you how to show up on social media with practical tips.

Maybe you have some advice to give and you want to offer a service IE life coach.  Check out Amy Porterfield.  She is incredible and will certainly help.

If you have limiting beliefs (which we all do) Marie Foleo is fantastic and will flip the script.

All I want, is for you to take one messy step.

When you can get over the fear of failing, you’re going to dramatically change the course of your life, the lives of your children, and everyone around you. 😘